So who really is Lady Godiva, the BDSM Mistress? I’m a classy, sassy kind of a Lady who happens to have a penchant for BDSM. Can’t help it, it’s just the way I am. That’s how I ended up becoming a Professional Dominatrix and BDSM Mistress. It’s the career of My dreams! I’m nearly black and blue for pinching Myself! No, I’m not really covered in bruises!!
I’m from a damn good background and know how to present Myself socially. Take Me to dinner and you’ll find out. If that scares you, then it’s a one-to-one you want. All you have to do is go to My contact page and I’ll set you up with a very private session, where you can gently and slowly explore your desires. Discretion is assured and I’ll always respect your limits.
However, if you’re feeling a tad more adventurous….
Why not take Me to a social or work occasion? Believe Me, I can blend into the situation so that no one would ever know. Pass Me off as your daughter or trophy wife, whether you’re an older gent or a younger man…and not necessarily in that order! That kind of evening would be hilarious for both of us! I’d have such fun with it and never give the game away. I can dodge social bullets with ease. Obviously you’ll want to get to know Me before embarking on such a maverick evening, but we could both have such a laugh with it. Add BDSM play to the mix and what more could you want? This is something I do with My regular clients and it has proved very popular indeed.
Perhaps it’s more of an outdoor experience you’re after. Well I’m totally at home in the great outdoors. I love nature and totally get the buzz of outside play. It can be very erotic, especially combined with the fear of being caught in the act. I’ve been known to tie My slaves to a tree while I give them a good beating. Don’t fret, I will release you afterwards. I’m skilled at choosing the perfect location so as not to get caught, but just supposing it were to happen I can quickly cover you up and spin a yarn to get us out of immediate trouble, while we make our quick escape. All very hilarious while we reflect on it over a tipple in a nearby pub or restaurant. Those are the priceless moments that keep us all alive!
Are you up for it? Just let Me know and I’ll make all the necessary arrangements 😉
I’m often asked how I got into BDSM and more importantly how I became a Dominatrix. Are you kneeling comfortably? Then I’ll begin…
I grew up quite a tomboy; assertive, full of energy, competitive and always beating the boys at whatever I did (pun intended of course!) This continued right up to puberty when I suddenly discovered the benefits of being beautiful, with big blue eyes and long blonde hair…and all the other attributes that a young woman finds herself equipped with. I then had more tools at My disposal to get whatever I wanted. Doors opened and a light bulb switched on. I no longer had to use my supple strength and sheer determination to get My way. I could just demand it with ease.
It was some while before I realised that I was a Dominatrix in the making. Although I think everyone around Me did! Young men running errands for Me, buying Me shoes and massaging My feet. Older men treating Me like royalty and catering to My every whim, however extravagant or demanding. Well that’s what happens when you ‘come of age’ I thought. Until I realised that My friends weren’t getting the same treatment from their boyfriends, let alone people they’d only just met.
My fetish for corsets, leather, PVC and high heels began in My teens, when I’d use any excuse to dress up. It even became a friendly joke amongst My friends that I had so often made the mistake of thinking a party was fancy dress when it wasn’t. It was no mistake! It just made it easier for Me to brazenly turn up to a run-of-the-mill vanilla party dressed as a scantily clad Amazon warrior, or a female assassin in a cat suit. I so enjoyed the looks on people’s faces as I walked into the room.
A friend once mentioned that they had meant to book a Kissagram for someone’s birthday gathering in a pub that evening, but had left it too late. Without a moment’s hesitation I’d offered Myself up for the task, delighted at the opportunity to wear a corset in public just for the Hell of it…yet again! As you can see from the smiles and laughter all round, this brightened up what would have been a very dull evening!
It was only a matter of time before I took things to the next level and began experimenting with ‘unusual’ sex toys and various implements designed to inflict such delicious pain. To become an expert however, takes patience, determination, research, training and years of practice.
I always immerse Myself totally in everything I do, ensuring that I become an expert. I hate doing things by half measures. I’d rather do something properly or not at all.
Anyone can ‘have a go’ at being a Dominatrix. Flicking a whip around and hitting in all the wrong places, without really knowing what they are doing, or why. Many newbies think that just as long as they are shouting at someone and inflicting pain, they are being a Dominatrix. How wrong they can be.
A session without proper planning lacks atmosphere, losing that spark that makes it a magical experience. Doing things incorrectly drastically changes any pain sensations from pleasure to something truly unpleasant and quite frankly a complete turn off. How disappointing after all the build-up of excitement and anticipation before the session started. Worse still, not knowing what one is doing can cause permanent damage or even death.
I have taken great pride in learning these skills to perfection; enjoying every step of My incredible journey. Oh the joy of finally turning My passion into a profession has been immense. I have to keep pinching Myself, but I much prefer inflicting that kind of thing on other people!
Dominatrix Lady Godiva is a BDSM London Mistress who holds most of Her sessions in and around London and Kent