Your Perfect Leather Mistress

Your Perfect Leather Mistress

Wouldn’t you love to meet your perfect leather Mistress? The one that totally captures your heart and soul. Does She exist, you ask yourself? Of course She does. You’re listening to Her right now. Lean in a little closer. Go on… you know you want to smell that leather. You know you want to hear the creak of Her leather moving in that oh so gorgeous way. Where can you put yourself? Where can you hide? You know your erection is showing and you so desperately want to hide it.

Mistress continues about Her business, possibly unaware. You’re really not sure, but so grateful She hasn’t mentioned it… yet. “Oh, what have I let myself in for?” you ask. Silently of course and remembering not to stare. You tremble as you wonder what will happen during this delicious time with Mistress.

She walks towards you gracefully and you find yourself feeling like a rabbit staring into the headlights. As Mistress leans in closer, you can smell the wonderful mixture of leather and Mistress’ scent. Your neck explodes with goosebumps as She leans in closer and whispers in your ear. “You are Mine now. You have to do everything I say.”

 

Without waiting for your answer, she places a collar around your neck and takes a firm hold of the lead. You automatically step up with one leg, as She pulls you up towards Her. You find the lead has already been passed over Her shoulder as She turns away from you. You struggle to keep in step as She marches along, knowing you have to stay close behind, but not too close. Your mind is racing as you see Mistress is heading for the spanking bench.

With one swift movement She pulls you into position on the bench. Your knees are slightly apart, so that your buttocks are exposed to whatever punishment Mistress has in mind. Expertly She tightens the leather straps on the bench, so that you cannot escape. You feel vulnerable, but ever so excited as you await your fate.

You can’t turn your head enough to see what’s going on. There is a mirror in front of you, but Mistress is just out of sight. “Don’t fret My little slave” Mistress teases. You hear Her approach once again and close your eyes as you hear the swish of a whip. The delicious sting as it makes contact is followed by the increased sensation of the after sting. Mistress watches your body closely and knows the perfect time for the second stroke. Each time you compose yourself, another swish and you’re back in that sweet spot of pain you know so well.

She walks in front of you and lifts your head with one hand under your chin. “There, there,” She whispers as She moves closer still and you find yourself immersed in Her cleavage. You gasp for breath, still unable to move, and wonder if She’ll ever let you go. You hope She will, but at the same time relish in the thought of being there forever.

After what seems an eternity you are permitted to take a breath, only to find yourself back in that cosy, wonderful place again. You lose count of the times this is repeated and lose all track of time. Suddenly you realise that the straps of the spanking bench are being untied. You relish your new-found freedom for a moment, only to feel the tug on your leash again.

A leather hood is placed over your head and your mind starts to race. Standing once again, you are led towards a large cross. Your hands and feet are handcuffed to the cross and you watch Mistress walk away to select a few items.

A clamp is placed on each nipple and you relish the pain. Mistress’ leather gloved hand squeezes your cock… hard. Your balls are like putty in Her hands and you swoon as She tightens Her grip. Lost in a chaotic rush of senses, you close your eyes and wonder how long this will last. Please, please never stop is the last thing you remember thinking.

Lady Godiva is a leather Mistress offering sessions in London and north Kent. Contact Her by email serveladygodiva@gmail.com

How to choose the best London BDSM Mistress

Choosing the best London BDSM Mistress

Where to start?

You want to book a session with a London BDSM Mistress. How do you know which one? There are so many to choose from. The list seems to change all the time, with new Mistresses appearing daily. Which Mistresses are any good? Are any of them going to be compatible with you?

Unless you have endless pots of money, it’s not feasible to keep making random bookings, hoping to stumble upon the ‘perfect Mistress’. You have to do your research and choose wisely.

Sending emails to all and sundry seems to be a common approach. Amusingly some emails even show all the Mistresses they have been sent to. Yes really! That’s never a good way forward. I suppose the rationale is to see what comes back and pick the Mistress with the best or quickest response. You can just imagine the responses those kinds of emails get!

There are numerous Mistress listing sites, but they are just a collection of adverts really, with links to each Mistress’s website. Anyone can advertise themselves in whatever way they please. Or of course, they could get someone else to do this for them. It does show you what’s out there, but is it the best way to choose the right one?

Do some research

A search on Google will result in Mistresses with good online content relating to your search term. This indicates that it is something they have felt worth writing about, which is a good thing. They must have similar interests to you, right?

The problem is that it will also show all the websites that have been tweaked by a technician to rank well for that search term. The only way to tell the difference is to have a proper look at their website content. If there’s not much actual content on that subject, then it’s likely to have been engineered. But does this really matter?

Google has changed over the past few years and is in the process of weeding out poor content. Its aim is that only websites with good quality content will rank in searches, while those with the ‘old style’ website tweaks will fade away. However, until this process is complete, many of these tweaked websites still rank well. It doesn’t mean those Mistresses aren’t any good at what they do. But it doesn’t mean that they are, either.

A bit more research

Here’s where you have to read, read and read some more. Unless you happen to have met the Mistress, it’s only Her online content that you have to go on. Her website pages, blogs and articles, tweets in Twitter, photographs and film clips. These all add up to create a story of what She is about. This helps you further narrow down your search.

At the end of the day, you might not much care for all that. It might only be Her picture gallery and list of things She’s happy to include in a session, that interests you. That is fine if all you want is a pretty Lady to have a BDSM session with. If on the contrary, you seek a skilled professional Dominatrix, you’d be wise to look deeper than that. Anyone can look like a Dominatrix in the right clothing. If She is pretty and ‘your type’, She will look amazing. If that’s all you seek, then look no further.

Once you’ve found a London BDSM Mistress whose online presence you like, there’s still more research to do. How will the two of you connect during a session? Does She really do all the things She writes about? Does She do them well…and safely? Did She actually write those words anyway?

Read Her testimonials. These are valuable reviews from people just like you. After looking around they chose this Mistress to breathe life into their fantasy. The experience was obviously so good that they then made the effort to write a glowing review. I’ve had many bookings based on the content of one testimonial or another. Sometimes people have gleaned ideas from them and asked for a similar scenario in their session. You can tell a lot from a review.

If what you’ve read resonates with you, it’s a sign that you’re off to a good start. If you’re still a bit unsure, why not book a Skype, webcam or phone chat session? If this is offered, it’s a good opportunity to have some one-to-one interaction and see if you have chosen wisely.

Making contact

Once you feel confident that this Mistress is ‘The one’, then it’s time to take the plunge and make direct contact.

When contacting a Mistress, you want to make a good first impression. Take the time to see what method of contact is preferred and use that. Don’t text or email simply saying, “Hi” or “Are you free?” Be polite and give some detail about what you’re looking for.

If email contact is preferred, then stick with that until advised otherwise. Don’t call because you didn’t get a reply within 5 minutes. Even worse, don’t ring and ring incessantly throughout the day and night. You need to be patient and await a reply. It’s unlikely that a busy Mistress will be sitting by the phone 24/7 responding to calls and emails within seconds. You may strike lucky if you chose the right moment, but if not; wait.

It’s always good to have a chat on the phone at some point before the day of the session. A conversation will usually iron out any final hesitancy, on either side. It’s a good opportunity to see how you interact with each other.

You may start off nervous but I find people quickly relax and feel reassured during a phone call. I don’t view this as part of the session, unless previously arranged to be so. I talk normally with people when setting up the session and do My best to put them at ease. I find this to be the best way to get a proper understanding of each other. This makes for a far better session when we meet.

Having the best BDSM session of your life

Once the phone call is done, you’ll just have to follow your gut instinct and take the plunge to commit. After all, you can never be entirely sure about anything in life, until it happens. But with a good level of research, you have far more likelihood of a truly amazing session.

Take the time to research and you will find the best London BDSM Mistress for you! Randomly choosing Mistresses based on a set of photographs alone, can seriously end in bitter disappointment. You have been warned.

BDSM Sessions with London Mistress

BDSM Sessions with London Mistress

BDSM sessions with London Mistress Lady Godiva

BDSM Mistress London“What will happen to me?”  I hear you ask.  “How do I know if I’ll like BDSM?”  “How should I approach Her?”  Well much of whether this BDSM session ends up being a successful encounter depends entirely upon you.

I like a nice, polite email enquiry to start with.  That always gets My attention far better than something rude or offhand.  Make a point of reading My website, as it details the best way to get in touch.  There’s even a contact form containing questions, so half the thinking is already done for you.  My website clearly states that I do not offer sexual services, so can you imagine My disdain when I find that someone has obviously not bothered to read this?

So you’ve finally plucked up the courage to fill out the contact form, or you’ve drafted a courteous email asking Me how I am and outlining your interests.  What next?  I’ll tell you what next.  You wait.  Occasionally I will reply immediately.  That’s when you’ve been lucky and found Me catching up on My emails right now.  Usually it will be the same day that I reply, but sometimes it takes a few days, as I have a very interesting and busy life.  Patience is a virtue.

However, having said that, I do understand the anguish of anticipation.  Sometimes it can feel as though one will burst if a reply does not come soon.  It has been known for emails to lurk in my junk folder and be unseen for a few weeks.  For that reason I will allow you to follow up on your email enquiry if you have not heard from Me within a couple of days.  I will not punish you unduly for this 😉

I read your email and hopefully it excites Me enough to consider having a session with you.  If you have put your phone number in the email, rest assured I will not ring it unless you have let Me know a convenient day and time to do so.  I will email to ask you for further details.  We will then agree upon a date, time and location.

I like to ask for a £50 deposit to secure the booking.  I’ll then send you My mobile number and details of the location.  I like to have a chat over the ‘phone a day or so before the BDSM session, as I feel both of us will benefit from this.

You will arrive at the location at the agreed time.  We have a pre-session chat to settle the nerves and make sure everything is OK, then you’ll change and the session starts.  Afterwards there will be time for a chat about how it all went.  “But what happens between getting changed and the after-session chat?” you ask.

Foot fetish Mistress LondonThe session itself will last an hour or however long you have booked.  Every session is different.  You may have provided copious details of your interests and how you envisage the session to unfold.  This can work well and many very happy slaves have headed out the door after such a session.  But don’t try to ‘top from the bottom’ thinking that I need to be instructed and manipulated, like a puppet on a string.  It won’t work as I will spot this and will reprimand you!  On the other hand, sensible suggestions are welcome.

“Oh how on Earth am I going to ever find the right balance in BDSM?” you cry.  Ask Me.  It’s that simple.  Right from the start you have that opportunity.  In the email conversations and especially during the pre-session chat.  I’ll soon let you know if something is not right.

BDSM Mistress London
I’ve held all sorts of BDSM sessions from abductions to foot and boot worship, feminisation and housework, to total deprivation and torture.  Obviously the extreme sessions are by request.  I wouldn’t dream of totally surprising a complete newbie novice with an unplanned needle play session.  Nor would I use My cane on someone who says they can’t handle any kind of pain.

BDSM and Ballbusting Mistress LondonIf you’re stuck for ideas, you can of course just leave the whole thing to Me.  Let Me know 3 things you like or like the sound of, and 3 things you hate or really don’t wish to try.  I’ll work out the rest.  I have a talent for judging the dynamics and situation.  So although you’ll be pushed a little out of your comfort zone (and wouldn’t you be disappointed if you weren’t) I’ll not push too far during our first meeting.  Well at least I’ll try not to.

I must confess it hasn’t gone perfectly every single time.  There was a slave who’d asked for corporal punishment and role play.  He was so traumatised being interrogated by Me as a military officer, that he fled after just 10 minutes.  I’d not had a chance to even start on the corporal punishment part.  How disappointing!  Mind you, by 9.30 that evening he emailed to book another session, which went very well by the way…just with no role-play included that time.

I have some special regulars who return time and time again.  I enjoying building the relationship so that each session grows and flourishes.  I know them inside and out…quite literally in some cases!

I can be kind, but only where kindness is appropriate.  I have no patience for brattish behaviour.  Sulk at your own peril.  I can be understanding, but not when you are being over demanding.  I can be forgiving, but not when you are being petulant.  I can be sensuous and seductive, but not when you are being needy or overbearing.  I can be everything you ever wished for, or I can be your worst nightmare….the choice is yours and Mine but definitely not in that order.

Are you ready?

 

Lady Godiva holds most of Her BDSM sessions at the Hoxton Dungeon Suite, Better Than a Bed and two private dungeons – one between The Oval and Brixton, and the other not far from Dartford in Kent.  Other locations can be arranged.

What does BDSM mean to Lady Godiva?

What does BDSM mean to Lady Godiva?

Even the letters BDSM mean different things to different people.  Some say it’s strictly ‘bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism’, while others insist the D is for dominance and the S for submission.  I don’t feel it really matters all that much, as BDSM seems to have become a word in its own right.  Reference to BDSM is fairly commonplace these days, even more so since the recent popularity of ‘50 Shades of Grey’ in today’s mainstream society.

Ballbusting Mistress LondonTo Me BDSM is a delicious combination of many things, all wrapped up in a spicy, electric blanket of fun.   It’s all things kink…whatever that means to anyone.  For some that means an occasional buttock spank while making love; while for others it’s being locked naked and alone in a dark cell for hours, after a cruel beating.

I see it as truly limitless.  An infinite expanse of imagination and human consciousness.  But to Me, most of all it’s fun.  I do love a sense of humour and a rapport with My clients, even if this is just in the pre-session chat.  Don’t get Me wrong, I can be very stern and serious in a session, but I have also had many occasions where all that can be heard is laughter from both / all of us.  Being too serious just for the sake of it isn’t what it’s all about to Me. 

Foot fetish Mistress LondonDifferent strokes for different folks.  Something that makes one person reel back in horror, is the ultimate pleasure to another.  Take foot fetish and foot worship, for instance.  Some people cannot abide anyone touching their feet, or worse still the thought of touching someone else’s.  Yet for a huge percentage of people, foot worship is something they have craved and obsessed about since very early childhood.  They may not necessarily refer to it as ‘fun’, but certainly very a pleasurable experience indeed.  Sacred moments when they feel truly at service to their Mistress.

Mention ‘ballbusting’ to most people and they wince at the mere thought…be they male or female.  Whereas this is a very popular kink with online forums and interest groups worldwide.   I’m sure there are far more mainstream ‘vanilla’ types that would really enjoy it, if only they allowed themselves to try.

However much I already know about BDSM, as with everything in life, there is always so much more to learn.  That really keeps the whole thing alive for Me.  I’ve always enjoyed learning new skills and expanding My experiences, and love hearing about unusual kinks and interests.  I particularly enjoy the part I play in enabling someone to live their dreams.

So what is it?  It’s the dynamic between Domme/Dom and sub (D/s) which must be respected and tended well, in order for it to flourish.  It’s the skipped heartbeat and sparkle in the eye when the playroom door opens; the anticipation and yearning that comes from whispering your interests to an understanding ‘other’.  And it’s the feeling of completeness when you know that you have been true to yourself.

London Mistress BDSMSo come hither and whisper in My ear.  I’m always listening!

 

 

Lady Godiva is a BDSM London Mistress who holds most of Her sessions in and around London and Kent

Ballbusting extravaganza by Ballbusting London Mistress Lady Godiva

Ballbusting extravaganza by Ballbusting London Mistress Lady Godiva

What do I like about ballbusting?  Well what is there not to like?  With My years of martial arts training I have a strong, swift kick that surprises many a sub, plus a grip of iron that should truly terrify you.  Think not of Me as a weak, pathetic female!  You have been warned!

I see ballbusting as a fine art rather than brute force and ignorance.  Punches and kicks need to be well aimed or many will hit the thigh and other areas, missing that ‘sweet spot’ only to be found within a scrotal sack.  This really doesn’t have the same effect at all.

Although I can play hard – very hard – I can also gauge exactly how hard to play when dealing with a cautious newbie who is just trying things out.  This is very important so as not to put someone off; spoiling all the fun and enjoyment they could be getting.  Just enough to test the limits without taking things too far.

London ballbusting MistressI’ve been perfecting My kicks and punches for years.  Many an hour spent hitting pads and targets.  Often human, moving targets which is so much more fun.  It takes skill to be able to punch and kick with power, especially from a short distance.  This has proved very useful particularly in the small confines of some dungeons I know, but also when someone is trussed into a position where access to the vital area is somewhat limited.  I can simply exert a sudden burst of pressure through the ball of My foot, without even needing to break contact, and still end up packing a strong kick.  I delight in the look on the face of My victims with that trick!

I’m always on the lookout for a new workout to keep fit and ballbusting fits right in there alongside aerobics and bootcamp.  Especially when I’m lucky enough to be face to face with a painslut that just wants Me to keep going.  Oh did I mention that I never tire?  Well I don’t.  My stamina levels are very high and I love to work up a good sweat.  So if you really want to test your limits, then you’ve come to the right place.

But it’s not just punches and kicks I that are My specialities.  Once I get hold of your dangly bits there’s no escape.  With just My hands you’ll be lifted up onto tippy toes, desperately trying to get higher to lessen the pain.  All the while listening to Me laughing as I watch your pathetic attempt to make things easier for yourself.

I love to stretch, twist, pull and squeeze.  Like putty in My hands…oh joy!  This is all without the need for any equipment whatsoever.  Once gadgets are added to the mix, along with My furtive imagination, you’d better break out the smelling salts because you’re in for a rough ride.

London ballbusting MistressI’m always on the lookout for a new way to bust balls.  There are many things designed for such fun, but I like the use of simple household implements too, such as barbeque tongs…snip, snap.  Every time I go shopping I spot something.  Nut crackers, staplers, bendy rulers, golf balls (good target practice), elastic bands, meat tenderisers, ping pong bats, wood clamps, the list goes on.  A length of twine always comes in handy, oh and the things I can do with a rolling pin!!  Where’s My apron?

I have a particularly evil pair of boots that I like to wear on occasion, but I must say one of My most powerful kicks wearing those would not be for the faint-hearted.  Anyone care to try?

London ballbusting Mistress

 

 

 

Lady Godiva is a ballbusting London Mistress who holds most of Her sessions in and around London and Kent